Selasa, 25 Oktober 2011

FREE

hi readers.. October is in the end soon, and my epic short semester is finish.. now i enjoy my holiday for more than 2 month. Hope can enjoy my holiday this year.. because next year i gonna take Independent Project for 2 semester and hopefully at the end year can find company for doing my co-op for 4 month. Sure next year i will very very busy. I think every thing is plan perfectly and let God do the rest :)
I work as hard as I can, for as long as I can, and the best that I can, Every time.

Now im waiting for November, coz i plan go to penang island.. this what i want hahaha
i can take photo as much as i can, do what ever i want, laugh till im drop :P
and also i want going back to my home.. but my visa still not finish yet.. so i must wait for a while..
hmm... i will update the photo soon after back.. :)
enjoy my blog.. and feel free to add  some comment ^^




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Minggu, 09 Oktober 2011

Differences between friends & best friends


FRIENDS: Will comfort you when he rejects you.
BEST FRIENDS: Will go up and ask him, “It’s because you’re gay, isn’t it?”
FRIENDS: Will be there for you when he breaks up with you.
BEST FRIENDS: Will call him up and whisper, “you will die in Seven days…”
FRIENDS: Help you up when you fall.
BEST FRIENDS: Keeps on walking saying, “Walk much, dumb ass?”
FRIENDS: Help you find your prince.
BEST FRIENDS: Kidnap him and brings him to you.
FRIENDS: Will ask you if you’re okay when you’re crying.
BEST FRIENDS: Will laugh at you and say, “Ha Ha, Loser!”
FRIENDS: Will offer you a soda.
BEST FRIENDS: Will dump theirs on you.
FRIENDS: Will sit at the side of the pool with you at that time of the month.
BEST FRIENDS: Will throw you a tampon and push you in.
FRIENDS: Gives you their umbrella in the rain.
BEST FRIENDS: Takes yours and says, “Run, fucker, run!”
FRIENDS: Will help you move.
BEST FRIENDS: Will help you move the bodies.
FRIENDS: Will bail you out of jail.
BEST FRIENDS: Would be in the room next to you saying, “That was awesome! Let’s do it again!”
FRIENDS: Would bail you out of jail again
BEST FRIENDS: Would be sitting next to you saying “DAMN!” we messed up!
FRIENDS: Never ask for anything to eat or drink.
BEST FRIENDS: Help themselves and are the reason why you have no food.
FRIENDS: Call your parents by Mr. and Mrs. and Grandpa, by Grandpa.
BEST FRIENDS: Call your parents DAD and MOM and Grandpa, GRAMPS!
FRIENDS: Have never seen you cry.
BEST FRIENDS: Wont tell everyone else you cried…just laugh about it with you in private when your not down anymore.
FRIENDS: Asks you to write down your number.
BEST FRIENDS: Have you on speed dial.
FRIENDS: Borrows your stuff for a few days then gives it back.
BEST FRIENDS: Loses your stuff and tells you, “My bad…here’s a tissue.”
FRIENDS: Only know a few things about you.
BEST FRIENDS: Could write a very embarrassing biography on your life story…
FRIENDS: Will leave you behind if that is what the crowd is doing.
BEST FRIENDS: Will kick the whole crowd’s ass that left you
FRIENDS: Would knock on your front door.
BEST FRIENDS: Walk right in and say “I’M HOME.”
FRIENDS: You have to tell them not to tell anyone.
BEST FRIENDS: Already know not to tell.
FRIENDS: Are only through high school/college. (aka: drinking buddies)
BEST FRIENDS: Are for life.
FRIENDS: Will be there to take your drink away from you when they think you’ve had enough.
BEST FRIENDS: Will look at you stumbling all over the place & say “Girl drink the rest of that ! You know we don’t waste!
FRIENDS: Would read and ignore this.
BEST FRIENDS: Will repost this :)

Jumat, 07 Oktober 2011

Steve Jobs’s Best Quotes


Steve Jobs, one of the fathers of the personal computing era and the founder of Apple, died Wednesday at the age of 56. Although he will be remembered for ushering in fundamental changes in the way people interact with technology, he has also been known for his ability to turn a phrase – and a knack for taking complicated ideas and making them easy to understand. Below, a compendium of some of the best Steve Jobs quotes.
On Technology
“It takes these very simple-minded instructions—‘Go fetch a number, add it to this number, put the result there, perceive if it’s greater than this other number’––but executes them at a rate of, let’s say, 1,000,000 per second. At 1,000,000 per second, the results appear to be magic.” [Playboy, Feb. 1, 1985]
***
“The problem is I’m older now, I’m 40 years old, and this stuff doesn’t change the world. It really doesn’t.
“I’m sorry, it’s true. Having children really changes your view on these things. We’re born, we live for a brief instant, and we die. It’s been happening for a long time. Technology is not changing it much — if at all.
“These technologies can make life easier, can let us touch people we might not otherwise. You may have a child with a birth defect and be able to get in touch with other parents and support groups, get medical information, the latest experimental drugs. These things can profoundly influence life. I’m not downplaying that.
“But it’s a disservice to constantly put things in this radical new light — that it’s going to change everything. Things don’t have to change the world to be important.” [Wired, February 1996]
***
“I think it’s brought the world a lot closer together, and will continue to do that. There are downsides to everything; there are unintended consequences to everything. The most corrosive piece of technology that I’ve ever seen is called television — but then, again, television, at its best, is magnificent.” [Rolling Stone, Dec. 3, 2003]
On Design
“We think the Mac will sell zillions, but we didn’t build the Mac for anybody else. We built it for ourselves. We were the group of people who were going to judge whether it was great or not. We weren’t going to go out and do market research. We just wanted to build the best thing we could build.


When you’re a carpenter making a beautiful chest of drawers, you’re not going to use a piece of plywood on the back, even though it faces the wall and nobody will ever see it. You’ll know it’s there, so you’re going to use a beautiful piece of wood on the back. For you to sleep well at night, the aesthetic, the quality, has to be carried all the way through.” [Playboy, Feb. 1, 1985]

***
“Design is a funny word. Some people think design means how it looks. But of course, if you dig deeper, it’s really how it works. The design of the Mac wasn’t what it looked like, although that was part of it. Primarily, it was how it worked. To design something really well, you have to get it. You have to really grok what it’s all about. It takes a passionate commitment to really thoroughly understand something, chew it up, not just quickly swallow it. Most people don’t take the time to do that.

“Creativity is just connecting things. When you ask creative people how they did something, they feel a little guilty because they didn’t really do it, they just saw something. It seemed obvious to them after a while. That’s because they were able to connect experiences they’ve had and synthesize new things. And the reason they were able to do that was that they’ve had more experiences or they have thought more about their experiences than other people.
“Unfortunately, that’s too rare a commodity. A lot of people in our industry haven’t had very diverse experiences. So they don’t have enough dots to connect, and they end up with very linear solutions without a broad perspective on the problem. The broader one’s understanding of the human experience, the better design we will have. [Wired, February 1996]
***
“For something this complicated, it’s really hard to design products by focus groups. A lot of times, people don’t know what they want until you show it to them.”
“That’s been one of my mantras — focus and simplicity. Simple can be harder than complex: You have to work hard to get your thinking clean to make it simple. But it’s worth it in the end because once you get there, you can move mountains.” [BusinessWeek, May 25, 1998, in a profile that also included the following gem: "Steve clearly has done an incredible job," says former Apple Chief Financial Officer Joseph Graziano. "But the $64,000 question is: Will Apple ever resume growth?"]
***
“This is what customers pay us for–to sweat all these details so it’s easy and pleasant for them to use our computers. We’re supposed to be really good at this. That doesn’t mean we don’t listen to customers, but it’s hard for them to tell you what they want when they’ve never seen anything remotely like it. Take desktop video editing. I never got one request from someone who wanted to edit movies on his computer. Yet now that people see it, they say, ‘Oh my God, that’s great!’” [Fortune, January 24 2000]
***
“Look at the design of a lot of consumer products — they’re really complicated surfaces. We tried to make something much more holistic and simple. When you first start off trying to solve a problem, the first solutions you come up with are very complex, and most people stop there. But if you keep going, and live with the problem and peel more layers of the onion off, you can often times arrive at some very elegant and simple solutions. Most people just don’t put in the time or energy to get there. We believe that customers are smart, and want objects which are well thought through.” [MSNBC and Newsweek interview, Oct. 14, 2006]



On His Products
“I don’t think I’ve ever worked so hard on something, but working on Macintosh was the neatest experience of my life. Almost everyone who worked on it will say that. None of us wanted to release it at the end. It was as though we knew that once it was out of our hands, it wouldn’t be ours anymore. When we finally presented it at the shareholders’ meeting, everyone in the auditorium gave it a five-minute ovation. What was incredible to me was that I could see the Mac team in the first few rows. It was as though none of us could believe we’d actually finished it. Everyone started crying.” [Playboy, Feb. 1, 1985]
***
Playboy: We were warned about you: Before this Interview began, someone said we were “about to be snowed by the best.”
[Smiling] “We’re just enthusiastic about what we do.” [Playboy, Feb. 1, 1985]
***
“We made the buttons on the screen look so good you’ll want to lick them.” [On Mac OS X, Fortune, Jan. 24, 2000]
***
“It will go down in history as a turning point for the music industry. This is landmark stuff. I can’t overestimate it!” [On the iTunes Music Store, Fortune, May 12, 2003]
***
“Every once in a while a revolutionary product comes along that changes everything. … One is very fortunate if you get to work on just one of these in your career. Apple’s been very fortunate it’s been able to introduce a few of these into the world.” [Announcement of the iPhone, Jan. 9, 2007]
On Business
“You know, my main reaction to this money thing is that it’s humorous, all the attention to it, because it’s hardly the most insightful or valuable thing that’s happened to me.” [Playboy, Feb. 1, 1985]
***
“Being the richest man in the cemetery doesn’t matter to me … Going to bed at night saying we’ve done something wonderful… that’s what matters to me.” [The Wall Street Journal, May 25, 1993]
***
Q: There’s a lot of symbolism to your return. Is that going to be enough to reinvigorate the company with a sense of magic?
“You’re missing it. This is not a one-man show. What’s reinvigorating this company is two things: One, there’s a lot of really talented people in this company who listened to the world tell them they were losers for a couple of years, and some of them were on the verge of starting to believe it themselves. But they’re not losers. What they didn’t have was a good set of coaches, a good plan. A good senior management team. But they have that now.” [BusinessWeek, May 25, 1998]
***
“Innovation has nothing to do with how many R&D dollars you have. When Apple came up with the Mac, IBM was spending at least 100 times more on R&D. It’s not about money. It’s about the people you have, how you’re led, and how much you get it.” [Fortune, Nov. 9, 1998]
***
“The cure for Apple is not cost-cutting. The cure for Apple is to innovate its way out of its current predicament.” [Apple Confidential: The Real Story of Apple Computer Inc., May 1999]
***
“The problem with the Internet startup craze isn’t that too many people are starting companies; it’s that too many people aren’t sticking with it. That’s somewhat understandable, because there are many moments that are filled with despair and agony, when you have to fire people and cancel things and deal with very difficult situations. That’s when you find out who you are and what your values are.
“So when these people sell out, even though they get fabulously rich, they’re gypping themselves out of one of the potentially most rewarding experiences of their unfolding lives. Without it, they may never know their values or how to keep their newfound wealth in perspective.” [Fortune, Jan. 24, 2000]
***
“The system is that there is no system. That doesn’t mean we don’t have process. Apple is a very disciplined company, and we have great processes. But that’s not what it’s about. Process makes you more efficient.
“But innovation comes from people meeting up in the hallways or calling each other at 10:30 at night with a new idea, or because they realized something that shoots holes in how we’ve been thinking about a problem. It’s ad hoc meetings of six people called by someone who thinks he has figured out the coolest new thing ever and who wants to know what other people think of his idea.
“And it comes from saying no to 1,000 things to make sure we don’t get on the wrong track or try to do too much. We’re always thinking about new markets we could enter, but it’s only by saying no that you can concentrate on the things that are really important. [BusinessWeek, Oct. 12, 2004]
On His Competitors
Playboy: Are you saying that the people who made PCjr don’t have that kind of pride in the product?
“If they did, they wouldn’t have made the PCjr.” [Playboy, Feb. 1, 1985]
***
“Some people are saying that we ought to put an IBM PC on every desk in America to improve productivity. It won’t work. The special incantations you have to learn this time are the “slash q-zs” and things like that. The manual for WordStar, the most popular word-processing program, is 400 pages thick. To write a novel, you have to read a novel––one that reads like a mystery to most people. They’re not going to learn slash q-z any more than they’re going to learn Morse code. That is what Macintosh is all about.” [Playboy, Feb. 1, 1985]
***
“The only problem with Microsoft is they just have no taste. They have absolutely no taste. And I don’t mean that in a small way, I mean that in a big way, in the sense that they don’t think of original ideas, and they don’t bring much culture into their products.”
“I am saddened, not by Microsoft’s success — I have no problem with their success. They’ve earned their success, for the most part. I have a problem with the fact that they just make really third-rate products.” [Triumph of the Nerds, 1996]
***
“I wish him the best, I really do. I just think he and Microsoft are a bit narrow. He’d be a broader guy if he had dropped acid once or gone off to an ashram when he was younger.” [On Bill Gates, The New York Times, Jan. 12, 1997]
On Predicting the Future
“I’ll always stay connected with Apple. I hope that throughout my life I’ll sort of have the thread of my life and the thread of Apple weave in and out of each other, like a tapestry. There may be a few years when I’m not there, but I’ll always come back. [Playboy, Feb. 1, 1985]
***
“The most compelling reason for most people to buy a computer for the home will be to link it to a nationwide communications network. We’re just in the beginning stages of what will be a truly remarkable breakthrough for most people––as remarkable as the telephone.” [Playboy, Feb. 1, 1985]
***
“The desktop computer industry is dead. Innovation has virtually ceased. Microsoft dominates with very little innovation. That’s over. Apple lost. The desktop market has entered the dark ages, and it’s going to be in the dark ages for the next 10 years, or certainly for the rest of this decade.
“It’s like when IBM drove a lot of innovation out of the computer industry before the microprocessor came along. Eventually, Microsoft will crumble because of complacency, and maybe some new things will grow. But until that happens, until there’s some fundamental technology shift, it’s just over.” [Wired, February 1996]
***
The desktop metaphor was invented because one, you were a stand-alone device, and two, you had to manage your own storage. That’s a very big thing in a desktop world. And that may go away. You may not have to manage your own storage. You may not store much before too long. [Wired, February 1996]
On Life
“It’s more fun to be a pirate than to join the navy.” [1982, quoted in Odyssey: Pepsi to Apple, 1987]
***
“When you’re young, you look at television and think, There’s a conspiracy. The networks have conspired to dumb us down. But when you get a little older, you realize that’s not true. The networks are in business to give people exactly what they want. That’s a far more depressing thought. Conspiracy is optimistic! You can shoot the bastards! We can have a revolution! But the networks are really in business to give people what they want. It’s the truth.” [Wired, February 1996]
***
“I’m an optimist in the sense that I believe humans are noble and honorable, and some of them are really smart. I have a very optimistic view of individuals. As individuals, people are inherently good. I have a somewhat more pessimistic view of people in groups. And I remain extremely concerned when I see what’s happening in our country, which is in many ways the luckiest place in the world. We don’t seem to be excited about making our country a better place for our kids.” [Wired, February 1996]
***
“You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.” [Stanford commencement speech, June 2005]
***
“Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don’t settle.” [Stanford commencement speech, June 2005]
***
“When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: “If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you’ll most certainly be right.” It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: “If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” And whenever the answer has been “No” for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
“Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure — these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.” [Stanford commencement speech, June 2005]
***
“I think if you do something and it turns out pretty good, then you should go do something else wonderful, not dwell on it for too long. Just figure out what’s next.” [NBC Nightly News, May 2006]
***
And One More Thing
“No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don’t want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.
“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” [Stanford commencement speech, June 2005]




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Selasa, 04 Oktober 2011


The point is that.. If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never have it. If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place.

Minggu, 02 Oktober 2011

Nothing will be solved just by sitting around and hoping the answer will fall from the sky!
But there is suffering in life, and there are defeats. No one can avoid them.
But it's better to lose some of the battles in the struggles for your dreams
than to be defeated without ever knowing what you're fighting.

Kamis, 22 September 2011

Beda Antara Cinta dan Pernikahan

Apa itu Cinta ?


Suatu hari, Plato bertanya pada gurunya,"Apa itu cinta ? Bagaimana saya bisa menemukannya?" 
Gurunya menjawab,"Ada ladang gandum yang luas di depan, jalanlah ke depan tanpa menoleh ke belakang, dan pilih hanya satu tangkai. Jika kamu menemukan yang paling menakjubkan, artinya kamu telah menemukan cinta."

Plato pun berjalan, dan tak lama, dia kembali dengan tangan kosong, tanpa mengambil satu tangkai pun. Gurunya bertanya,"Mengapa kamu tidak memilih satu tangkai pun?" Plato menjawab, "Karena aku hanya bisa memilih sekali, namun aku tidak bisa kembali dan menoleh ke belakang, mungkin aku telah menemukan yang paling menakjubkan, tapi tidak tahu apakah ada yang lebih baik ke depan, jadi aku tidak mengambilnya. Saat aku berjalan lebih jauh lagi, tangkai yang aku lihat tidak sebagus yang tadi, jadi aku tidak memilih apapun akhirnya. Gurunya lalu berkata,"Dan itu adalah cinta".


Apa itu Pernikahan ?


Pada hari lain, Plato bertanya pada gurunya,"Apa itu pernikahan? Bagaimana aku bisa menemukannya?"Gurunya menjawab,"Ada hutan yang subur di depan, jalanlah ke depan tanpa menoleh ke belakang, dan tebang hanya satu pohon. Jika kamu menemukan pohon tertinggi, maka kamu telah menemukan apa itu perkawinan."Plato pun berjalan, dan tak lama, dia kembali dengan membawa pohon. Pohon itu tidak berkembang, dan itu tidak bertumbuh terlalu tinggi. itu hanya sebuah pohon biasa. Gurunya bertanya,"Mengapa kamu memotong pohon yang biasa ini?"Plato menjawab,"Karena pengalaman aku sebelumnya. Aku berjalan di tengah-tengah hutan. Kali ini, aku melihat pohon ini, dan aku merasa bahwa itu tidak buruk, jadi aku tebang itu dan membawanya kembali. Aku tidak ingin kehilangan kesempatan. "Gurunya kemudian berkata,"Dan itu adalah pernikahan."



Selasa, 13 September 2011

Hidup untuk Mati

Awalnya aku mati matian menyelesaikan studi SMA dan mulai kuliah
Lalu aku mati matian menyelesaikan kuliah supaya bisa bekerja
Lalu aku mati matian mencari pasangan untuk menikah
Lalu aku mati matian menyekolahkan anak kita agar bisa berhasil
Lalu aku mati matian ingin pensiun
Akhirnya aku tua dan hampir mati
Tiba tiba aku sadar bahwan aku telah lupa untuk HIDUP

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Jumat, 09 September 2011

Aku meminta kepada Tuhan untuk menyingkirkan penderitaanku.
Tuhan menjawab, Tidak. Itu bukan untuk Kusingkirkan, tetapi agar kau mengalahkannya.

Aku meminta kepada Tuhan untuk menyempurnakan kecacatanku.
Tuhan menjawab, Tidak. Jiwa adalah sempurna, badan hanyalah sementara.

Aku meminta kepada Tuhan untuk menghadiahkanku kesabaran.
Tuhan menjawab, Tidak. Kesabaran adalah hasil dari kesulitan; itu tidak dihadiahkan, itu harus dipelajari.

Aku meminta kepada Tuhan untuk memberiku kebahagiaan.
Tuhan menjawab, Tidak. Aku memberimu berkat. kebahagiaan adalah tergantung padamu.

Aku meminta kepada Tuhan untuk menjauhkan penderitaan.
Tuhan menjawab, Tidak. Penderitaan menjauhkanmu dari perhatian duniawi dan membawamu mendekat padaKu.

Aku meminta kepada Tuhan segala hal sehingga aku dapat menikmati hidup.
Tuhan menjawab, Tidak. Aku akan memberimu hidup, sehingga kau dapat menikmati segala hal.

Aku meminta kepada Tuhan membantuku mengasihi orang lain, seperti Ia mengasihiku.
Tuhan menjawab... Ahhh, akhirnya kau mengerti :)


HARI INI ADALAH MILIKMU JANGAN SIA-SIAKAN. 
Bagi dunia kamu mungkin hanyalah seseorang, tetapi bagi seseorang kamu adalah duniannya.

Rabu, 10 Agustus 2011

1. Setelah makan malam, seorang ibu dan putrinya bersama-sama mencuci mangkuk dan piring, sedangkan ayah dan putranya menonton TV di ruang tamu.

Mendadak, dari arah dapur terdengar suara piring yang pecah, kemudian sunyi senyap. Si putra memandang ke arah ayahnya dan berkata, "Pasti ibu yang memecahkan piring itu." "Bagaimana kamu tahu?" kata si Ayah. "Karena tak terdengar suara dia memarahi orang lain," sahut anaknya.



Kita semua sudah terbiasa menggunakan standar yang berbeda melihat orang lain dan memandang diri sendiri, sehingga acapkali kita menuntut orang lain dengan serius, tetapi memperlakukan diri sendiri dengan penuh toleran.



2. Ada dua grup pariwisata yang pergi bertamasya ke pulau Yi Do di Jepang. Kondisi jalannya sangat buruk, sepanjang jalan terdapat banyak lubang. Salah satu pemandu berulang-ulang mengatakan keadaan jalannya rusak parah dan tak terawat.

Sedangkan pemandu yang satunya lagi berbicara kepada para turisnya dengan nada puitis, "Yang kita lalui sekarang ini adalah jalan protokol ternama di Yi Do yang bernama jalan berdekik yang mempesona."


Walaupun keadaannya sama, namun pikiran yang berbeda akan menimbulkan sikap yang berbeda pula. Pikiran adalah suatu hal yang sangat menakjubkan, bagaimana berpikir, keputusan berada di tangan Anda.



3. Murid kelas 3 SD yang sama, mereka memiliki cita-cita yang sama pula yaitu menjadi badut. Guru dari Tiongkok pasti mencela, "Tidak mempunyai cita-cita yang luhur, anak yang tidak bisa dibina!"

Sedangkan guru dari Barat akan bilang, "Semoga Anda membawakan kecerian bagi seluruh dunia!"


Terkadang orang yang lebih tua, bukan hanya lebih banyak menuntut daripada memberi semangat, malahan sering membatasi definisi keberhasilan dengan arti yang sempit.



4. Istri sedang memasak di dapur. Suami yang berada di sampingnya mengoceh tak berkesudahan, "Pelan sedikit, hati-hati! Apinya terlalu besar. Ikannya cepat dibalik, minyaknya terlalu banyak!"

Istrinya secara spontan menjawab, "Saya mengerti bagaimana cara memasak sayur." Suaminya dengan tenang menjawab, "Saya hanya ingin dirimu mengerti bagaimana perasaan saya , saat saya sedang mengemudikan mobil, engkau yang berada disamping mengoceh tak ada hentinya."


Belajar memberi kelonggaran kepada orang lain itu tidak sulit, asalkan Anda mau dengan serius berdiri di sudut dan pandangan orang lain melihat suatu masalah.



5. Sebuah bus yang penuh dengan muatan penumpang sedang melaju dengan cepat menelusuri jalanan yang menurun, ada seseorang yang mengejar bus ini dari belakang.

Seorang penumpang mengeluarkan kepala keluar jendala bus dan berkata dengan orang yang mengejar bus, "Hai kawan! Sudahlah Anda tak mungkin bisa mengejar!"Orang tersebut menjawab, "Saya harus mengejarnya . . ." Dengan nafas tersenggal-senggal dia berkata, "Saya adalah pengemudi dari bus ini!"


Ada sebagian orang harus berusaha keras dengan sangat serius, jika tidak demikian, maka akibatnya akan sangat tragis!

Dan juga dikarenakan harus menghadapi dengan sekuat tenaga, maka kemampuan yang masih terpendam dan sifat-sifat khusus yang tidak diketahui oleh orang lain selama ini akan sepenuhnya muncul keluar.



6. Si A : "Tetangga yang yang baru pindah itu sungguh jahat, kemarin tengah malam dia datang ke rumah saya dan terus menerus menekan bel di rumah saya."
Si B : "Memang sungguh jahat! Adakah Anda segera melapor polisi?"
Si A : "Tidak. Saya menganggap mereka orang gila, yang terus menerus meniup terompet kecil saya."


Semua kejadian pasti ada sebabnya, jika sebelumnya kita bisa melihat kekurangan kita sendiri, maka jawabannya pasti berbeda.



7. Zhang San sedang mengemudikan mobil berjalan di jalan pegunungan, ketika dengan santai menikmati pemandangan yang indah, mendadak dari arah depan datang sebuah truk barang.

Si sopir truk membuka jendela dan berteriak dengan keras, "Babi!"
Mendengar suara ini Zhang San menjadi emosi, dia juga membuka jendela memaki, "Kamu sendiri yang babi!"

Baru saja selesai memaki, dia telah bertabrakan dengan gerombolan babi yang sedang menyeberangi jalan.


Jangan salah tafsir maksud kebaikan dari orang lain, hal tersebut akan menyebabkan kerugian Anda, juga membuat orang lain terhina.



8. Seorang bocah kecil bertanya kepada ayahnya, "Apakah menjadi seorang ayah akan selalu mengetahui lebih banyak dari pada anaknya?"
Ayahnya menjawab, "Sudah tentu!"
"Siapa yang menemukan listrik?"
"Edison."
"Kalau begitu mengapa bukan ayah Edison yang menemukan listrik?"


Pakar acapkali adalah kerangka kosong yang tidak teruji, lebih-lebih pada zaman pluralis terbuka sekarang ini.



9. Ketika mandi Toto kurang hati-hati telah menelan sebongkah kecil sabun, ibunya dengan gugup menelepon dokter rumah tangga minta pertolongan.

Dokter berkata, "Sekarang ini saya masih ada beberapa pasien, mungkin setengah jam kemudian saya baru bisa datang ke sana."

Ibu Toto bertanya, "Sebelum Anda datang, apa yang harus saya lakukan?"
Dokter itu menjawab, "Berikan Toto secangkir air putih untuk diminum, kemudian melompat-lompat sekuat tenaga, maka Anda bisa menyuruh Toto meniupkan gelembung busa dari mulut untuk menghabiskan waktu."


Jika peristiwa sudah terjadi, mengapa tidak dihadapi dengan tenang dan yakin. Daripada khawatir lebih baik berlega, dari pada gelisah lebih baik tenang.



10. Sebuah gembok yang sangat kokoh tergantung di atas pintu, sebatang tongkat besi walaupun telah menghabiskan tenaga besar, masih juga tidak bisa membukanya.

Kuncinya datang, badan kunci yang kurus itu memasuki lubang kunci, hanya diputar dengan ringan, "plak" gembok besar itu sudah terbuka.


Hati dari setiap insan, persis seperti pintu besar yang telah terkunci, walaupun Anda menggunakan batang besi yang besar pun tak akan bisa membukanya. Hanya dengan mencurahkan perhatian, Anda baru bisa merubah diri menjadi sebuah anak kunci yang halus, masuk ke dalam sanubari orang lain.