Thanks to everyone to my birthday wishes, gifts, etc. You all make my special day a little brighter  :) 

Many thanks to you all ... YOU ROCK!!!

Meaning of F.R.I.E.N.D.S.H.I.P

"F" is for Fun.
That friends share when they are together.

"R" is for Reliability.
A true friend is someone that you can always rely on.

"I" is for Interest.
Someone who is genuinely interested in you, your fears, joys, and life.

"E" is for Energy.
They pick you up when you are down, and give you the energy to go on and believe in yourself.

"N" is for Nothing.
Nothing is ever too much, no matter what time it is, night or day.

"D" is for Distance.
Although the miles may separate you, a true friend is never far away.

"S" is for Secrets.
Your feelings and personal/private thoughts that you can only share with a friend.

"H" is for Happiness.
The way one feels when they are with a friend.

"I" is for Inseparable.
Through good times and bad, tears and laughter. A friend will always be there for you.

"P" is for Perfect.
The friendship.

If Tomorrow

If tomorrow, I should never wake up,
I wanted to say

I'm sorry...

I'm sorry for what I've done, and what I haven't done.
I could have done better, I should have done more.

If I harmed you, yelled at you, ignored you, or didn't care...

I'm so sorry..

If tomorrow, I should never wake up, I wanted to say

Thank You!

If me and you were the best of friends, I thank you for always being there.

If you and me only talked once in a while, and didn't have much time,
and we fight sometimes, thank you for humbling me.

If tomorrow, I should never wake up,
I wanted to say everything....
That I never had time to.

And if tomorrow never comes, I wanted to say

I Love You!!!

I love you 'coz you're my friend, my companion, my shadow
My gravity, my mentor, my total support.

You are not perfect, and I am not either,
But thank you for having a big big part in my life...

Berhentilah Mengeluh !!

Coba renungkan penyampaian ini sebelum Anda mulai mengeluhkan berbagai hal yang terjadi dalam hidup Anda… 

01. Hari ini sebelum Anda mengatakan kata-kata yang tidak baik, 
Pikirkan tentang seseorang yang tidak dapat berbicara sama sekali 

02. Sebelum Anda mengeluh tentang rasa dari makanan yang Anda santap, 
Pikirkan tentang seseorang yang tidak punya apapun untuk dimakan. 

03. Sebelum Anda mengeluh tidak punya apa-apa ,
Pikirkan tentang seseorang yang meminta-minta di jalanan. 

04. Sebelum Anda mengeluh bahwa Anda buruk, 
Pikirkan tentang seseorang yang berada pada tingkat yang terburuk di dalam hidupnya. 

05. Sebelum Anda mengeluh tentang suami atau istri Anda, 
Pikirkan tentang seseorang yang memohon kepada Tuhan untuk diberikan teman hidup. 

06. Hari ini sebelum Anda mengeluh tentang hidup Anda, 
Pikirkan tentang seseorang yang meninggal terlalu cepat. 

07. Sebelum Anda mengeluh tentang anak-anak Anda,
Pikirkan tentang seseorang yang sangat ingin mempunyai anak tetapi dirinya mandul. 

08. Sebelum Anda mengeluh tentang rumah Anda yang kotor karena pembantu tidak mengerjakan tugasnya, 
Pikirkan tentang orang-orang yang tinggal dijalanan. 

09. Sebelum Anda mengeluh tentang jauhnya Anda telah menyetir, 
Pikirkan tentang seseorang yang menempuh jarak yang sama dengan berjalan. 

10. Dan di saat Anda lelah dan mengeluh tentang pekerjaan Anda, 
Pikirkan tentang pengangguran,orang-orang cacat yang berharap mereka mempunyai pekerjaan seperti anda. 

11. Sebelum Anda menunjukkan jari dan menyalahkan orang lain, 
ingatlah bahwa tidak ada seorangpun yang tidak berdosa.

12. Kita semua menjawab kepada Sang Pencipta,
Dan ketika Anda sedang bersedih dan hidupmu dalam kesusahan, tersenyum dan berterima kasihlah kepada Tuhan bahwa Anda masih hidup ! 

13. Cintai orang lain dengan perkataan dan perbuatanmu 

14. Cinta diciptakan tidak untuk disimpan atau disembunyikan 

15. Anda tidak mencintai seseorang karena dia cantik atau tampan, 
Mereka cantik/tampan karena Anda mencintainya,,, 

16. It’s true you don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone, 
but it’s also true You don’t know what you’ve been missing until it arrives!!! 


Life is a gift.. Live it.. Enjoy it.. Celebrate it.. and Fulfill it..

Jadi, berhentilah mengeluh, hadapilah manis pahitnya hidup dengan bersyukur terhadap semua yang telah Tuhan berikan…

Hidup Itu Indah

Pada saat memberikan kuliah tentang Manajemen Stress, Steven Covey mengangkat segelas air dan bertanya pada para siswanya: "Seberapa berat menurut anda kira segelas air ini? "Para siswa menjawab mulai dari 200 gr sampai 500 gr.

"Ini bukanlah masalah berat absolutnya, tapi tergantung berapa lama anda memegangnya. " kata Covey. "Jika saya memegangnya selama 1 menit,
tidak ada masalah. Jika saya memegangnya selama 1 jam, lengan kanan
saya akan sakit. Dan jika saya memegangnya selama 1 hari penuh, mungkin anda harus memanggilkan ambulans untuk saya"

"Beratnya sebenarnya sama, tapi semakin lama saya memegangnya, maka bebannya akan semakin berat. Jika kita membawa beban kita terus menerus, lambat laun kita tidak akan mampu membawanya lagi. Beban itu akan meningkat beratnya." lanjut Covey. "Apa yang harus kita lakukan adalah meletakkan gelas tersebut, istirahat sejenak sebelum mengangkatnya lagi".

Kita harus meninggalkan beban kita secara periodik, agar kita dapat lebih segar dan mampu membawanya lagi. Apapun beban yang ada di pundak anda hari ini, coba tinggalkan sejenak jika bisa, setelah istirahat nanti dapat diambil lagi..

HIDUP INI SINGKAT, jadi cobalah menikmati dan manfaatkan. Hal terindah dan terbaik di dunia ini tak dapat dilihat, atau disentuh, tapi dapat dirasakan jauh di relung hati kita.

Mother Teresa Quotes

Our life of poverty is as necessary as the work itself. Only in heaven will we see how much we owe to the poor for helping us to love God better because of them. 

Peace begins with a smile. 

Spread love everywhere you go. Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier. 

Sweetest Lord, make me appreciative of the dignity of my high vocation, and its many responsibilities. Never permit me to disgrace it by giving way to coldness, unkindness, or impatience. 

The biggest disease today is not leprosy or tuberculosis, but rather the feeling of being unwanted. 

The greatest destroyer of peace is abortion because if a mother can kill her own child, what is left for me to kill you and you to kill me? There is nothing between. 

The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread. 

The miracle is not that we do this work, but that we are happy to do it. 

The most terrible poverty is loneliness and the feeling of being unloved. 

The success of love is in the loving - it is not in the result of loving. Of course it is natural in love to want the best for the other person, but whether it turns out that way or not does not determine the value of what we have done. 

There are no great things, only small things with great love. Happy are those. 

There is always the danger that we may just do the work for the sake of the work. This is where the respect and the love and the devotion come in - that we do it to God, to Christ, and that's why we try to do it as beautifully as possible. 

There is more hunger in the world for love and appreciation in this world than for bread. 

There must be a reason why some people can afford to live well. They must have worked for it. I only feel angry when I see waste. When I see people throwing away things that we could use. 

We are all pencils in the hand of God. 

We can do no great things, only small things with great love. 

We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature - trees, flowers, grass- grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence... We need silence to be able to touch souls. 

We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But the ocean would be less because of that missing drop. 

We shall never know all the good that a simple smile can do. 

We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty. 

Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies. 

Being unwanted, unloved, uncared for, forgotten by everybody, I think that is a much greater hunger, a much greater poverty than the person who has nothing to eat. 

Do not think that love, in order to be genuine, has to be extraordinary. What we need is to love without getting tired. 

Do not wait for leaders; do it alone, person to person. 

Each one of them is Jesus in disguise. 

Even the rich are hungry for love, for being cared for, for being wanted, for having someone to call their own. 

Everytime you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing. 

God doesn't require us to succeed; he only requires that you try. 

Good works are links that form a chain of love. 

I am a little pencil in the hand of a writing God who is sending a love letter to the world. 

I do not pray for success, I ask for faithfulness. 

I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love. 

I know God will not give me anything I can't handle. I just wish that He didn't trust me so much. 

I try to give to the poor people for love what the rich could get for money. No, I wouldn't touch a leper for a thousand pounds; yet I willingly cure him for the love of God. 

I want you to be concerned about your next door neighbor. Do you know your next door neighbor? 

If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other. 

If we want a love message to be heard, it has got to be sent out. To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it. 

If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one. 

If you judge people, you have no time to love them. 

If you want a love message to be heard, it has got to be sent out. To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it.


have a nice day... May God with us in all our activities... ^^

"I want you to always be Healthy"

God came and asked me for a wish,


I told GOD: Let all my friends be healthy and happy forever...!

GOD said: But for 4 days only....!

I said: Yes, let them be a Spring Day, Summer Day, AutumnDay, and Winter Day.

GOD said: 3 days.

I said: Yes, Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow.

GOD said: No, 2 days!

I said: Yes, a Bright Day (Daytime) and Dark Day (Night-time).

GOD said: No, just 1 day!

I said: Yes!

GOD asked: Which day?

I said: Every Day in the living years of all my friends!

GOD laughed,
and said: All your friends will be healthy and happy Every Day!.


Send this to your friends and bless them with good health and happiness...
GOD said Good friends must keep in contact!
Be Happy...... ^^

A TALE OF TWO FRIENDS

A story tells that two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey, they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face. The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, he wrote in the sand:

"TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE"

They kept on walking, until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but his friend saved him. After he recovered from the near drowning, he carved on a stone:

"TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE"

The friend, who had slapped and saved his best friend, asked him, "After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand, and now, you carve on a stone, why?"


The other friend replied: "When someone hurts us, we should write it down in sand, where the winds of forgiveness can erase it away, but when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone, where no wind can ever erase it."





“Proses dari teman menjadi sahabat membutuhkan usaha pemeliharaan dari kesetiaan, tetapi 
bukan pada saat kita membutuhkan bantuan barulah kita memiliki motivasi mencari 
perhatian, pertolongan dan pernyataaan kasih dari orang lain, tetapi justru ia beriinisiatif 
memberikan dan mewujudkan apa yang dibutuhkan oleh sahabatnya.”


“Persahabatan tidak terjalin secara otomatis tetapi membutuhkan proses yang panjang seperti besi menajamkan besi, demikianlah sahabat menajamkan sahabatnya. Persahabatan diwarnai dengan berbagai pengalaman suka dan duka, dihibur-disakiti, diperhatikan-dikecewakan, didengar-diabaikan, dibantu-ditolak,
namun semua ini tidak pernah sengaja dilakukan dengan tujuan kebencian.”

8 Kado Terindah

Delapan macam kado ini adalah hadiah terindah dan tak ternilai bagi orang-orang yang Anda sayangi.

1. Kehadiran.
Kehadiran orang yang dikasihi adalah kado yang tak ternilai harganya. Memang kita bisa juga hadir lewat surat , telepon, foto, atau fax. Namun dengan berada di sampingnya, Anda dan dia dapat berbagi perasaan, perhatian, dan kasih sayang secara lebih utuh dan intensif. Jadikan kehadiran Anda sebagai pembawa kebahagiaan.

2. Mendengar.
Sedikit orang yang mampu memberikan kado ini. Sebab, kebanyakan orang lebih suka didengarkan ketimbang mendengarkan. Dengan mencurahkan perhatian pada segala ucapannya, secara tak langsung kita juga telah menumbuhkan kesabaran dan kerendahan hati. Untuk bisa mendengar dengan baik, pastikan Anda dalam keadaan betul-betul relaks dan bisa menangkap utuh apa yang disampaikan. Tatap wajahnya. Tidak perlu menyela, mengkritik, apalagi menghakimi. Biarkan ia menuntaskannya, ini memudahkan Anda memberikan tanggapan yang tepat setelah itu. Tidak harus berupa diskusi atau penilaian. Sekedar ucapan terima kasih pun akan terdengar manis baginya.

3. Diam.
Seperti kata-kata, di dalam diam juga ada kekuatan. Diam bisa dipakai untuk menghukum, mengusir, atau membingungkan orang. Tapi lebih dari segalaya, diam juga bisa menunjukkan kecintaan kita pada seseorang karena memberinya “ruang”. Terlebih jika sehari-hari kita sudah terbiasa gemar menasehati, mengatur, mengkritik, bahkan mengomel.

4. Kebebasan.
Mencintai seseorang bukan berarti memberi kita hak penuh untuk memiliki atau mengatur kehidupannya. Bisakah kita mengaku mencintai seseorang jika kita selalu mengekangnya? Memberi kebebasan adalah salah satu perwujudan cinta. Makna kebebasan bukanlah “kamu bebas berbuat semaumu”. Lebih dalam dari itu, memberi kebebasan adalah memberinya kepercayaan penuh untuk bertanggung jawab atas segala hal yang ia putuskan atau lakukan.

5. Keindahan.
Siapa yang tak bahagia, jika orang yang disayangi tiba-tiba tampil lebih ganteng atau cantik? Tampil indah dan rupawan juga merupakan sebuah kado yang indah. Selain keindahan penampilan pribadi, Anda pun bisa menghadiahkan keindahan suasana di rumah. Vas dan bunga segar cantik di ruang keluarga atau meja makan yang tertata indah, misalnya.

6. Tanggapan Positif.
Tanpa sadar, sering kita memberikan penilaian negatif terhadap pikiran, sikap, atau tindakan orang yang kita sayangi. Seolah-olah tidak ada yang benar dari dirinya dan kebenaran mutlak hanya ada pada kita. Kali ini, coba hadiahkan tanggapan positif. Nyatakan dengan jelas dan tulus. Cobalah ingat, berapa kali dalam seminggu terakhir Anda mengucapkan terima kasih atas segala hal yang dilakukannya demi Anda. Ingat-ingat pula, pernahkah Anda memujinya? Kedua hal itu, ucapan terima kasih dan pujian (dan juga permintaan maaf) adalah kado indah yang sering terlupakan.

7. Kesediaan Mengalah.
Tidak semua masalah layak menjadi bahan pertengkaran. Apalagi sampai menjadi pertengkaran yang hebat. Bila Anda memikirkan hal ini, berarti Anda siap memberikan kado “kesediaan mengalah”. Kesediaan untuk mengalah juga dapat melunturkan sakit hati dan mengajak kita menyadari bahwa tidak ada manusia yang sempurna di dunia ini.

8. Senyuman.
Percaya atau tidak, kekuatan senyuman amat luar biasa. Senyuman, terlebih yang diberikan dengan tulus, bisa menjadi pencair hubungan yang beku, pemberi semangat dalam keputusasaan, pencerah suasana muram, bahkan obat penenang jiwa yang resah. Senyuman juga merupakan isyarat untuk membuka diri dengan dunia sekeliling kita. Kapan terakhir kali Anda menghadiahkan senyuman manis pada orang yang dikasihi.

Semoga memberi inspirasi bagi kita untuk semakin mampu membahagiakan sesama,
semoga semua hidup berbahagia…..


have a nice day
and be great...

I Believe...

I believe-
that we don’t have to change friends
if we understand that friends change.

I believe-
that no matter how good a friend is,
they’re going to hurt you every
once in a while and you must forgive
them for that.

I believe-
that true friendship continues to grow,
even over the longest distance.
Same goes for true love.

I believe-
that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.

I believe-
that it’s taking me a long time
to become the person I want to be.

I believe-
that you should always leave loved ones
with loving words. It may be the last
time you see them.

I believe-
that you can keep going
long after you can’t.

I believe-
that we are responsible for what we do,
no matter how we feel.

I believe-
that either you control your attitude
or it controls you.

I believe-
that regardless of how hot and
steamy a relationship is at first,
the passion fades and there had
better be something else to take
its place.

I believe-
that heroes are the people
who do what has to be done
when it needs to be done,
regardless of the consequences.

I believe-
that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I believe-
that my best friend and I can do anything
or nothing and have the best time.

I believe-
that sometimes the people you expect
to kick you when you’re down,
will be the ones to help you get back up.

I believe-
that sometimes when I’m angry
I have the right to be angry,
but that doesn’t give me
the right to be cruel.

I believe-
that just because someone doesn’t love
you the way you want them to doesn’t
mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I believe-
that maturity has more to do with
what types of experiences you’ve had
and what you’ve learned from them
and less to do with how many
birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I believe-
that it isn’t always enough to be
forgiven by others. Sometimes you
have to learn to forgive yourself.

I believe-
that no matter how bad your heart is broken
the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I believe-
that our background and circumstances
may have influenced who we are,
but we are responsible for who we become.

I believe-
that just because two people argue,
it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other
And just because they don’t argue,
it doesn’t mean they do.

I believe-
that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a
secret. It could change your life forever.

I believe-
that two people can look at the exact same
thing and see something totally different.

I believe-
that your life can be changed in a matter of
hours by people who don’t even know you.


have a nice day...
and be great =)